1. Bait and Switch
One of the smoothest ways to get your 69 on is to start in the spooning position, says Jane Greer, Ph.D., sex therapist and author of What About Me? Stop Selfishness From Ruining Your Relationship.
Once he’s all hot and bothered, have him lie on his back as you sit up and turn to face his feet. Pass your leg over his body so that your pelvis is hovering over his chest, then slowly lower yourself back and down.